Watch: ‘Carlo Isma’ – The She Word Gets Spicy Talking About Sex, Love And Everything Women Really Want

Orgasm gaps, awkward partners, sexy voices, and drunk sex.
The latest episode of She Word is out, and it’s one of the most honest and entertaining yet.
In this week’s episode, host Trudy Kerr is joined by Valentina Rossi, Melanie Kelly and Emily Jones to unpack the age-old question: What do women actually want?
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Inspired by the early 2000s classic What Women Want, the episode dives into careers, self-image, relationships, and yes, sex.
“65% of heterosexual women orgasm during sex. There’s a huge gap there,” Trudy points out.
“Where are we going wrong? Do we know what we want? Can we not talk about it? Do our partners even know?”
Valentina opens up about the struggles of communication in her marriage.
“I hate that I can’t talk about sex with my husband because he feels weird. Awkward,” she says.
Melanie jumps in, noting that a lot of men’s discomfort may come from their upbringing, “That’s where it comes from. Feeling awkward.”
Valentina doesn’t hold back either: “For me, sex is not just in the bedroom. It starts in the morning from how you speak to me, from how you make me feel wanted. Even little things turn me on.”
The conversation turns playful and bold, with Emily reacting: “Oh myy” and Melanie teasing, “She put the sexy voice on!”
But there’s a serious message beneath the laughs, many still struggle to talk openly about what they want, especially in intimate settings.
“There are different types of sex,” Valentina says. “The fun kind, the emotional kind, the drunk kind. But you need to figure out what works for you.”
This episode of She Word is a candid, funny, and thought-provoking reminder that women’s wants, whether in life, relationships or the bedroom, are valid, complex, and deserve to be heard.
Catch the full episode now and join the conversation.
What do you think women want?